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Full-Time Child Care for 2 Kids Costs 39% More Than Rent Across 100 Largest US Metros

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Child care is expensive. In fact, families who pay for child care spend an average of 18.6% of their income on it.

As parents juggle the demands of raising children and maintaining a household, many in the 100 largest U.S. metros are finding that the expenses of securing child care can rival — or even exceed — what they pay to keep a roof over their heads.

According to the latest LendingTree study, the average monthly cost of infant child care is 22.2% lower than the average monthly rent, while the cost to care for two children is 39.4% higher than rent.

Here’s where rent and child care are the most neck and neck.

  • The average monthly cost of full-time center-based infant care across the 100 largest U.S. metros is $1,218 — 22.2% lower than the average monthly cost to rent a two-bedroom unit ($1,566). However, the average monthly child care costs for an infant and 4-year-old spike to $2,182 — 39.4% higher than renting a two-bedroom unit.
  • The average monthly cost of full-time center-based infant care is higher than rent in 16 of the 100 largest metros. In Springfield, Mass., monthly infant care costs an average of $1,819 — 32.3% higher than average monthly rent ($1,375). The metros with the next highest differences are Syracuse, N.Y. (25.8%), and Buffalo, N.Y., and Wichita, Kan. (both 22.4%).
  • In 91 of the 100 metros, the average monthly cost of full-time center-based care for an infant and 4-year-old exceeds the monthly rent. In nine of those metros, child care costs are double rent costs. Again, Springfield has the highest difference, with child care costing 135.7% more than rent — $3,241 versus $1,375. Syracuse and Buffalo have the next highest differences at 131.3% and 125.1%, respectively.
  • This means child care costs for two children are less expensive than rent in only nine metros. In Miami, child care costs are 14.7% lower than rent — $1,982 versus $2,324. San Francisco (11.8% lower) and Austin, Texas (8.0% lower), are next closest.

The average monthly cost of full-time center-based infant care across the 100 largest U.S. metros is $1,218, according to an analysis of Child Care Aware of America and Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) data.

Meanwhile, according to an analysis of U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) Fair Market Rents (FMRs)  FMRs are estimates of the 40th percentile gross rents within a metro. This data looks at the monthly rent payment specified by a lease and utility costs paid by those who moved into their home in the last 15 to 22 months. These calculations exclude public housing units and units built within the past two years. data, the average monthly cost to rent a two-bedroom unit across the same 100 metros is $1,566.

That means infant child care costs are 22.2% lower than rent. (Generally, those through 12 months old are considered infants.)

Child care costs vs. rent in 100 largest metros

Average monthly infant care$1,218
Average monthly care, infant/4-year-old$2,182
Average monthly rent$1,566
Difference between monthly infant care and rent-22.2%
Difference between monthly care (infant/4-year-old) and rent39.4%

Source: LendingTree analysis of 2023 Child Care Aware of America, 2022 U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) and fiscal year 2024 Fair Market Rents (FMRs) data.

While more children may be merrier, it isn’t easy on the pockets. For an infant and 4-year-old, average monthly child care costs rise to $2,182. That’s 39.4% higher than renting a two-bedroom unit.

That jump may be expected, but Matt Schulz — LendingTree chief credit analyst and author of “Ask Questions, Save Money, Make More: How to Take Control of Your Financial Life” — says two children may offer some unexpected benefits.

“Sometimes a facility may offer a discounted rate for a family with two children enrolled at their facility, but that’s not a guarantee, nor is it likely to be a massive discount,” he says. “Any way you slice it, securing day care for that second child is going to be expensive, unless you have trusted friends or relatives willing to pitch in.”

He believes no one should be surprised that rent and child care costs are similarly expensive. “Both of these costs have been rising for some time, even before inflation took hold of the country,” he says. “Unfortunately, no one should expect these costs to start falling anytime soon.”

This comes as rent continues to increase. FMRs for a two-bedroom unit have risen by $505 across the 50 largest metros since 2019, according to another LendingTree study.

In some places, child care for one infant is more expensive than rent. To be specific, that’s true in 16 of the 100 largest metros.

Springfield, Mass., sees the biggest difference in infant care costs and rent. Full-time center-based care costs an average of $1,819 a month in Springfield, while rent is $1,375 — meaning child care costs are 32.3% higher.

High demand and low access to child care may explain the high costs here. According to Child Care Aware of America, nearly half of children under 6 in working families in Hampden County — where Springfield is located — don’t have access to child care during the workweek, which may drive up costs.

5 metros where infant care costs the most compared to rent

RankMetroAverage monthly infant careAverage monthly 2-bedroom rent% difference$ difference
1Springfield, MA$1,819$1,37532.3%$444
2Syracuse, NY$1,417$1,12625.8%$291
3Buffalo, NY$1,424$1,16322.4%$261
3Wichita, KS$1,245$1,01722.4%$228
5Spokane, WA$1,588$1,30421.8%$284

Source: LendingTree analysis of 2023 Child Care Aware of America, 2022 BLS and fiscal year 2024 FMRs data. Notes: Rankings are based on the percentage difference. Only the 100 largest U.S. metros were analyzed.

Two New York metros are in the top five. In Syracuse, child care costs are 25.8% higher than rent, while Buffalo ties with Wichita, Kan., with child care costs 22.4% higher than rent.

Schulz says families in these metros face unique challenges.

“Costs are likely forcing lots of parents in these metros to make difficult choices, including whether to go back to work after the little one arrives and whether to have another child,” he says. “Also, it means parents in these metros likely have less disposable income to get themselves ahead in their financial goals. Higher child care costs mean less ability to build emergency funds, grow retirement savings, put money toward mortgage down payments and more. That’s especially true given that none of these metros typically have high incomes.”

Where are the combined costs of child care and rent highest? Look no further than San Francisco, where the average monthly cost of full-time center-based infant care and a two-bedroom apartment reaches a whopping $5,066. That’s followed by Boston ($4,875) and San Jose, Calif. ($4,802).

Full rankings

Metros where infant care costs the most/least compared to rent

RankMetroAverage monthly infant careAverage monthly 2-bedroom rent% difference$ difference
1Springfield, MA$1,819$1,37532.3%$444
2Syracuse, NY$1,417$1,12625.8%$291
3Buffalo, NY$1,424$1,16322.4%$261
3Wichita, KS$1,245$1,01722.4%$228
5Spokane, WA$1,588$1,30421.8%$284
6Bakersfield, CA$1,513$1,25820.3%$255
7Worcester, MA$1,922$1,66115.7%$261
8Scranton, PA$1,153$1,03911.0%$114
9Rochester, NY$1,444$1,30710.5%$137
10Minneapolis, MN$1,767$1,6228.9%$145
11Albany, NY$1,465$1,3746.6%$91
12Fresno, CA$1,523$1,4435.5%$80
13Toledo, OH$1,015$9862.9%$29
14Washington, DC$2,095$2,0452.4%$50
15Pittsburgh, PA$1,178$1,1611.5%$17
16Dayton, OH$1,028$1,0230.5%$5
17Akron, OH$1,036$1,039-0.3%-$3
18Milwaukee, WI$1,163$1,170-0.6%-$7
19Stockton, CA$1,571$1,607-2.2%-$36
19Des Moines, IA$1,056$1,080-2.2%-$24
21Omaha, NE$1,111$1,170-5.0%-$59
22Albuquerque, NM$1,157$1,222-5.3%-$65
23St. Louis, MO$1,142$1,209-5.5%-$67
23Harrisburg, PA$1,203$1,273-5.5%-$70
23Cleveland, OH$1,047$1,108-5.5%-$61
26Poughkeepsie, NY$1,668$1,825-8.6%-$157
27Winston-Salem, NC$1,001$1,110-9.8%-$109
28Colorado Springs, CO$1,543$1,734-11.0%-$191
29Hartford, CT$1,470$1,654-11.1%-$184
30New Haven, CT$1,477$1,676-11.9%-$199
31Cincinnati, OH$1,052$1,195-12.0%-$143
32Virginia Beach, VA$1,312$1,493-12.1%-$181
33Indianapolis, IN$1,168$1,349-13.4%-$181
34Kansas City, MO$1,087$1,258-13.6%-$171
35Allentown, PA$1,230$1,426-13.7%-$196
36Greensboro, NC$1,005$1,170-14.1%-$165
37Richmond, VA$1,308$1,532-14.6%-$224
38Honolulu, HI$1,918$2,252-14.8%-$334
39Madison, WI$1,168$1,372-14.9%-$204
40Detroit, MI$1,086$1,291-15.9%-$205
41McAllen, TX$819$977-16.2%-$158
42Baltimore, MD$1,618$1,943-16.7%-$325
43Chicago, IL$1,424$1,714-16.9%-$290
44Providence, RI$1,398$1,693-17.4%-$295
45Tucson, AZ$1,099$1,337-17.8%-$238
46Knoxville, TN$993$1,221-18.7%-$228
47Columbus, OH$1,057$1,302-18.8%-$245
48Augusta, GA$886$1,100-19.5%-$214
49Lakeland, FL$992$1,250-20.6%-$258
50Oklahoma City, OK$863$1,091-20.9%-$228
51Bridgeport, CT$1,538$1,967-21.8%-$429
52Denver, CO$1,712$2,201-22.2%-$489
52Grand Rapids, MI$1,065$1,369-22.2%-$304
54Memphis, TN$999$1,298-23.0%-$299
55Sacramento, CA$1,591$2,072-23.2%-$481
56Riverside, CA$1,541$2,010-23.3%-$469
57Tulsa, OK$855$1,128-24.2%-$273
58Provo, UT$939$1,253-25.1%-$314
59El Paso, TX$859$1,150-25.3%-$291
60Portland, OR$1,504$2,024-25.7%-$520
61Philadelphia, PA$1,263$1,737-27.3%-$474
62Boston, MA$2,048$2,827-27.6%-$779
63Deltona, FL$1,019$1,413-27.9%-$394
64Palm Bay, FL$1,024$1,434-28.6%-$410
65Little Rock, AR$761$1,089-30.1%-$328
66Ogden, UT$933$1,350-30.9%-$417
67Oxnard, CA$1,656$2,414-31.4%-$758
67Houston, TX$931$1,357-31.4%-$426
69Charlotte, NC$1,050$1,554-32.4%-$504
70Baton Rouge, LA$859$1,277-32.7%-$418
71Seattle, WA$1,758$2,645-33.5%-$887
72Las Vegas, NV$1,087$1,643-33.8%-$556
73Nashville, TN$1,051$1,619-35.1%-$568
74Raleigh, NC$1,066$1,646-35.2%-$580
75Phoenix, AZ$1,215$1,877-35.3%-$662
76Los Angeles, CA$1,638$2,544-35.6%-$906
77Durham, NC$1,047$1,631-35.8%-$584
78Louisville, KY$833$1,301-36.0%-$468
79New Orleans, LA$870$1,362-36.1%-$492
80Jacksonville, FL$1,016$1,604-36.7%-$588
81Cape Coral, FL$1,049$1,677-37.4%-$628
82New York, NY$1,714$2,752-37.7%-$1,038
82Greenville, SC$751$1,206-37.7%-$455
84Boise, ID$864$1,388-37.8%-$524
85San Antonio, TX$896$1,458-38.5%-$562
86Birmingham, AL$759$1,245-39.0%-$486
87Jackson, MS$706$1,159-39.1%-$453
88Columbia, SC$754$1,246-39.5%-$492
89Salt Lake City, UT$948$1,606-41.0%-$658
90San Diego, CA$1,658$2,833-41.5%-$1,175
91North Port, FL$1,046$1,815-42.4%-$769
92Orlando, FL$1,036$1,857-44.2%-$821
93Tampa, FL$1,029$1,851-44.4%-$822
94Dallas, TX$975$1,758-44.5%-$783
95San Jose, CA$1,670$3,132-46.7%-$1,462
96Atlanta, GA$951$1,844-48.4%-$893
97San Francisco, CA$1,707$3,359-49.2%-$1,652
98Charleston, SC$798$1,599-50.1%-$801
99Miami, FL$1,150$2,324-50.5%-$1,174
100Austin, TX$931$1,924-51.6%-$993

Source: LendingTree analysis of 2023 Child Care Aware of America, 2022 BLS and fiscal year 2024 FMRs data. Notes: Rankings are based on the percentage difference. Only the 100 largest U.S. metros were analyzed.

Understandably, the cost of child care for an infant and a 4-year-old exceeds monthly rent in significantly more metros — 91 of the 100 analyzed. For nine of those metros, child care costs are at least double the average rent costs.

Springfield ranks first again, with child care for an infant and 4-year-old costing $3,241. Compared to the $1,375 monthly rent, child care costs 135.7% more.

Syracuse (131.3%) and Buffalo (125.1%) also make another appearance near the top. The other metros where child care costs more than double rent are:

  • Spokane, Wash. (115.7%)
  • Bakersfield, Calif. (108.8%)
  • Worcester, Mass. (106.1%)
  • Scranton, Pa. (103.7%)
  • Rochester, N.Y. (103.1%)
  • Wichita (101.4%)

5 metros where child care for infant/4-year-old costs the most compared to rent

RankMetroAverage monthly care, infant/4-year-oldAverage monthly 2-bedroom rent% difference$ difference
1Springfield, MA$3,241$1,375135.7%$1,866
2Syracuse, NY$2,604$1,126131.3%$1,478
3Buffalo, NY$2,618$1,163125.1%$1,455
4Spokane, WA$2,813$1,304115.7%$1,509
5Bakersfield, CA$2,627$1,258108.8%$1,369

Source: LendingTree analysis of 2023 Child Care Aware of America, 2022 BLS and fiscal year 2024 FMRs data. Notes: Rankings are based on the percentage difference. Only the 100 largest U.S. metros were analyzed.

To cover rent and child care for an infant and 4-year-old, you would need more than $6,000 monthly in Boston ($6,475), San Francisco ($6,323) and San Jose ($6,031) — making them the metros where the combined costs are highest.

Conversely, child care costs for two children are less expensive than rent in only nine metros. Miami ranks lowest, with child care costing just $1,982, 14.7% lower than rent costs of $2,324. San Francisco (11.8% lower) and Austin, Texas (8.0% lower), follow.

While that may seem good, Schulz says this indicates a different set of problems. “It likely means rent costs are out of control in those metros,” he says. “Families are already struggling to manage high rent costs. Adding in child care costs just makes things worse.”

Full rankings

Metros where child care for infant/4-year-old costs the most/least compared to rent

RankMetroAverage monthly care, infant/4-year-oldAverage monthly 2-bedroom rent% difference$ difference
1Springfield, MA$3,241$1,375135.7%$1,866
2Syracuse, NY$2,604$1,126131.3%$1,478
3Buffalo, NY$2,618$1,163125.1%$1,455
4Spokane, WA$2,813$1,304115.7%$1,509
5Bakersfield, CA$2,627$1,258108.8%$1,369
6Worcester, MA$3,424$1,661106.1%$1,763
7Scranton, PA$2,116$1,039103.7%$1,077
8Rochester, NY$2,654$1,307103.1%$1,347
9Wichita, KS$2,048$1,017101.4%$1,031
10Albany, NY$2,693$1,37496.0%$1,319
11Minneapolis, MN$3,131$1,62293.0%$1,509
12Pittsburgh, PA$2,162$1,16186.2%$1,001
13Washington, DC$3,773$2,04584.5%$1,728
14Fresno, CA$2,645$1,44383.3%$1,202
15Toledo, OH$1,802$98682.8%$816
16Milwaukee, WI$2,116$1,17080.9%$946
17Dayton, OH$1,826$1,02378.5%$803
18Akron, OH$1,840$1,03977.1%$801
19Des Moines, IA$1,903$1,08076.2%$823
20Omaha, NE$2,044$1,17074.7%$874
21Harrisburg, PA$2,208$1,27373.4%$935
22Stockton, CA$2,728$1,60769.8%$1,121
23Poughkeepsie, NY$3,067$1,82568.1%$1,242
24Cleveland, OH$1,860$1,10867.9%$752
25Winston-Salem, NC$1,836$1,11065.4%$726
26St. Louis, MO$1,998$1,20965.3%$789
27Hartford, CT$2,679$1,65462.0%$1,025
28Albuquerque, NM$1,968$1,22261.0%$746
29New Haven, CT$2,692$1,67660.6%$1,016
30Virginia Beach, VA$2,396$1,49360.5%$903
31McAllen, TX$1,557$97759.4%$580
32Allentown, PA$2,256$1,42658.2%$830
33Greensboro, NC$1,842$1,17057.4%$672
34Cincinnati, OH$1,868$1,19556.3%$673
35Richmond, VA$2,389$1,53255.9%$857
36Madison, WI$2,125$1,37254.9%$753
37Providence, RI$2,606$1,69353.9%$913
38Detroit, MI$1,979$1,29153.3%$688
39Colorado Springs, CO$2,632$1,73451.8%$898
39Knoxville, TN$1,854$1,22151.8%$633
41Kansas City, MO$1,903$1,25851.3%$645
42Augusta, GA$1,659$1,10050.8%$559
43Tucson, AZ$1,953$1,33746.1%$616
44Indianapolis, IN$1,970$1,34946.0%$621
45Oklahoma City, OK$1,587$1,09145.5%$496
46Columbus, OH$1,878$1,30244.2%$576
47Chicago, IL$2,466$1,71443.9%$752
48Memphis, TN$1,865$1,29843.7%$567
49Bridgeport, CT$2,804$1,96742.6%$837
50El Paso, TX$1,634$1,15042.1%$484
51Grand Rapids, MI$1,940$1,36941.7%$571
52Tulsa, OK$1,571$1,12839.3%$443
53Lakeland, FL$1,710$1,25036.8%$460
54Baltimore, MD$2,656$1,94336.7%$713
55Honolulu, HI$3,035$2,25234.8%$783
56Little Rock, AR$1,467$1,08934.7%$378
57Philadelphia, PA$2,319$1,73733.5%$582
58Sacramento, CA$2,763$2,07233.3%$691
59Riverside, CA$2,675$2,01033.1%$665
60Denver, CO$2,921$2,20132.7%$720
61Portland, OR$2,680$2,02432.4%$656
62Houston, TX$1,770$1,35730.4%$413
63Provo, UT$1,630$1,25330.1%$377
64Boston, MA$3,648$2,82729.0%$821
65Baton Rouge, LA$1,641$1,27728.5%$364
66Deltona, FL$1,756$1,41324.3%$343
67Charlotte, NC$1,925$1,55423.9%$371
68Palm Bay, FL$1,765$1,43423.1%$331
69New Orleans, LA$1,660$1,36221.9%$298
70Las Vegas, NV$1,998$1,64321.6%$355
71Nashville, TN$1,962$1,61921.2%$343
72Louisville, KY$1,567$1,30120.4%$266
73Ogden, UT$1,620$1,35020.0%$270
74Oxnard, CA$2,876$2,41419.1%$462
75Raleigh, NC$1,955$1,64618.8%$309
75Greenville, SC$1,433$1,20618.8%$227
77Birmingham, AL$1,468$1,24517.9%$223
78Seattle, WA$3,114$2,64517.7%$469
78Durham, NC$1,919$1,63117.7%$288
80San Antonio, TX$1,703$1,45816.8%$245
81Columbia, SC$1,439$1,24615.5%$193
82Jackson, MS$1,337$1,15915.4%$178
83Phoenix, AZ$2,159$1,87715.0%$282
84Boise, ID$1,591$1,38814.6%$203
85New York, NY$3,151$2,75214.5%$399
86Los Angeles, CA$2,844$2,54411.8%$300
87Jacksonville, FL$1,751$1,6049.2%$147
88Cape Coral, FL$1,808$1,6777.8%$131
89Dallas, TX$1,854$1,7585.5%$96
90Salt Lake City, UT$1,646$1,6062.5%$40
91San Diego, CA$2,879$2,8331.6%$46
92North Port, FL$1,802$1,815-0.7%-$13
93Atlanta, GA$1,782$1,844-3.4%-$62
94Orlando, FL$1,785$1,857-3.9%-$72
95Tampa, FL$1,772$1,851-4.3%-$79
96Charleston, SC$1,523$1,599-4.8%-$76
97San Jose, CA$2,899$3,132-7.4%-$233
98Austin, TX$1,770$1,924-8.0%-$154
99San Francisco, CA$2,964$3,359-11.8%-$395
100Miami, FL$1,982$2,324-14.7%-$342

Source: LendingTree analysis of 2023 Child Care Aware of America, 2022 BLS and fiscal year 2024 FMRs data. Notes: Rankings are based on the percentage difference. Only the 100 largest U.S. metros were analyzed.

Being a parent who rents in a large metro is understandably tough, but you don’t have to drown in debt to make it work. Schulz offers the following advice:

  • Seek financial help from the government and other organizations. “For those struggling the most with child care, help is available,” he says. “Seek local, state and federal government agencies geared toward helping financially strapped parents, but also consider religious organizations and other nonprofits. It can be tough to swallow your pride to reach out for help, but you can do it if it’s important enough to your family.”
  • Consider a personal loan to help in a pinch. “Taking on extra debt may seem like the last thing to do when you’re struggling with child care costs, but it may be helpful,” he says. “That’s especially true if you expect your financial hardship to be temporary, due to a job loss, medical emergency or unforeseen event. A personal loan can help make things easier. You can even use one to consolidate loans, ideally reducing your interest rates. Just make sure you shop around. Loan offers can vary widely by lender, but you won’t be able to see that unless you take the time to comparison shop.”

LendingTree researchers used 2023 Child Care Aware of America data to calculate average full-time center-based child care costs for one infant and two children (an infant and a 4-year-old) in the 100 largest U.S. metros.

Researchers determined child care costs in the 100 metros by adjusting state costs to the 2022 metropolitan area regional price parity (RPP) for all items via the U.S. Bureau of Economic Analysis (BEA). This adjustment was done using the state RPP as the base for our calculation.

Then, child care costs were compared to the cost of renting a two-bedroom housing unit in each metro based on fiscal year 2024 Fair Market Rents (FMRs) data via the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). We also calculated two-bedroom rent and child care averages across the 100 largest metros.

Fair Market Rents (FMRs) are estimates of the amount required to cover gross rents (rent and utility expenses) for 40% of the rental housing units in a given area. These estimates are crucial for several HUD programs, including setting the maximum amount covered by Housing Choice Vouchers.

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